1.19.2020

Also, it is Winter

Lando: 
He finished up another rotation. It is crazy to think he only has 6 more rotations left of residency. He has started training hard for his marathon, hoping to qualify for Boston this year. He ran 31 miles. We have been working out at Orange Theory together a few times a week. And that made the 31 miles seem less for me. He's already gone a lot for residency, but even more when he starts to train a lot. I just keep ....ahem....trying.... ahem... to be grateful that I have a husband who has drive. I am really grateful for that. Truly. Not just for me, but for our boys. Speaking of, he and Jax are finishing up Harry Potter 7, well they are half way through. He took Ty on a date on Saturday and will color with him every time he asks (to be fair its hard to say no to Ty's "Dad will you color with me please?"). He wrestles with Luke every night he's home, once the two older boys are in bed. Cutest dad! We went to the Draper temple last night and then yummy Ramen with the Curtis's. And then he woke up at 5:30am to help me finish preparing my lesson this morning. He is doing all the things. And I am so grateful for him every day. 

Becs: 
I feel weighed down by a lot of things lately. People keep saying "you're so close" or "you're at the light at the end of the tunnel". And technically it is true (considering we've been doing this for 10 years and only have 18 months left). And I just don't feel that. I was telling that to Landon tonight and he said, "The hardest part of a marathon are the last few miles." And that brought a lot of relief to me. We are in the last few miles of our "marathon". We are still very much in the building portion of our marriage/career/family. And while I know we are close to finishing, it still feels very far and very heavy. So many more big decision to make, so much more limbo to live through. This apartment+moving+new place+starting over+job hunting+deciding where to live+moving again+starting over. Just so so so so SO so much. All while having to do more infertility stuff+pregnancy+newborn. All while trying to help our kiddos feel like their life is stable, when I feel like our life is LIMBO. Hahaha.

Also it is the dead of winter. 

My blessings do not go unnoticed. Really! I am so grateful to have such healthy growing boys. I am so grateful for a hard working loving husband. I am so grateful for good health myself. I am grateful for how inexpensive this apartment is. I am grateful for our date nights. I am grateful for all of our family and friends. I am grateful for the scriptures. I am grateful for my calling in Sunday School. I am grateful my Neato Vacuum. I am grateful Luke fell asleep on me on day. We are living a charmed life in all the important ways. 

Jax: 
He had a great week of school. He got 100% on his spelling test. He played well in his basketball game. He read 3 books this week. He went to a friends birthday party. He is sad that football is over. 

Ty: 
THE HIGHLIGHT OF THE WEEK!!!!! WAS TY GOING TO HALLIES. I actually kept Ty home from school on Monday and Tuesday to avoid any chance of him getting sick. I was willing to do just about anything to make this little birthday sleep over happen. Even driving through the craziest storm we've experienced this year. And it was super weird because it was only in downtown SLC. Once you hit the freeway, it was pretty much gone. TY HAD A BLAST. We LOVE HALLIE so much!

Luke: 
I just think it is so amazing when Luke mimics the words that I say. Like watches my mouth, then he makes the same shape with his mouth, then says the words. WHAT? Tonight he said "Hippo". I'm not sure I can appropriately explain how amazing this is. So I won't. But its something i've never experienced before, a 20 month old, talking. Also, he's obsessed with Ty and every single nights he cries in devastation that he can't sleep in Tys bed with him. 







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Landon trying to make himself warm. OR rooms are cold. 









1.12.2020

Hello 2020

Landon
The new year started off in the best way, Landon had the day off and his cousin's family came and visited us. We love the Reeds. He is loving APS, though he does get bored. He is learning he really loves a lot of different things, a mixed practice seems like it will be perfect for him. 

2019 Goal: Become an early riser. He has gotten so much better at this. In fact the last couple of weeks he's been running on the treadmill in our bedroom at 5:30am. So proud of him 
2020 Goal: Have a weekly planning/finance meeting with me. Complete a full training cycle. More positive parent 


Becca
My week started off awesome with play group, and projects. The last few days were hard, I am starting to think I have a real problem with any hormone changes, not just infertility medication, but also when my period is starting. More research and investigation. Man our bodies, always so much to learn. My little Nephew Levi was blessed on Saturday which was so sweet. And my siblings and mom were able to go through my childhood home since it is up for sale. It is SO different now, but it was great to remember the memories. 

2019 Goal: 
Be on time to commitments. I got SO much better at this. I naturally work backwards when I am needing to make a commitment now and its been really good. 
2020 Goal: 
Get ready each morning. My hope is that by being ready each morning, I will be more effective throughout the day. Also my goal minor: Become Digitally KonMari'd
2018: Read the BOM daily 
2017: An intentional moment with each boy 
2016: Early to bed, early to rise 
2015: Become less wasteful 
2014: Daily prayer
2013: Clean as I cook 
2012: Serve one person daily 
2011: Exercise daily 
2010: Learn to cook 
2009: Go on a mission: Fail. 

I love going back and reviewing my goals, because I feel like I can see how much growth I have actually made over the years. I feel like I am really good at a lot of these consistently. 


Jaxson: 
He had a hard week. He has been bullied by a boy in class for a few months now and Tuesday it all came to a head. It didn't help that when he went into class sobbing, and tried to talk to the teacher about it, the teacher made is a class discussion. Landon took Jax to Star Wars one night and me and the boys took lunch to him at school one afternoon. The sweetest thing was that when we did take lunch, I brought two cookies and I could tell the other kids would want some. So we broke the cookies up into pieces and the first thing Jax did was grab a piece of cookie and say, "Hey Thomas do you want a cookie?" That is the boy that has bullied him. It was all on his own. We had talked about Nephi and his brothers earlier that morning and he had said a prayer to forgive Thomas. And it was the sweetest thing to watch my little 8 year old be so kind and good. I love him! 

2019 Goal: Read 25 chapter books. CRUSHED. 
2020 Goal: Run a 10K. Read 80 chapter books. 

Ty Ty: 
Is so tender. He made a little card for one of Jaxson's classmate who only has one hand. All on his own he just wanted to make a card for this boy. We also went to story time at the library and it honestly was the best. They read a book that I almost bought. But I never buy books so I just checked it out. I love it so much! 

2019: Read 1,000 picture books. Check!! 
2020: Learn how to read. 

Luke
Oh I can't even explain what its like to have a 20 month old say words. This has never happened to us and it is blowing our minds. 

2019: Learn to walk: Check!     
2020: Learn to talk in sentences! 


Family Goal 2019: Come Follow Me each Sunday: Check! 
Family Goal 2020: Be builders in our communication. 


Couple Goal 2019: Run 2019 Miles collectively. Check! 
Couple Goal 2020:  Go to the temple once a month for date night. 








































1.05.2020

Our 2019 Review

This year often felt like this picture: We were always surrounded by blessings, Christ's light and God's love, but sometimes we felt like we were in the shadows as we struggled to know which directions to take in life. It was a year full of decisions, family, adventures and growth!!!!


JANUARY: 
We almost moved, continued home schooling and Jax enjoyed basketball



FEBRUARY: 
I went to Disneyland with my brothers, Luke started sleeping through the night, we watched Hallie & Copes 



MARCH: 
FLORIDA for conference, TEXAS for Anesthesia Conference, GILBERT for Spring Break, SEDONA for Landons week off, INDIANA for mini getaway + Interview.......

plus my favorite post of the year




APRIL: 
Landon was voted Chief in his residency program, I went to New York to become a KonMari consultant, we had a cousin sleepover



MAY:
Landon PRs in his Marathon, Ty has a halloween birthday party, Luke starts walking, Jax finishes off an undefeated season in soccer




JUNE: 
We were visited by and visited lots of family & friends, we flew to AZ to swim, Landon was offered a 2-year fellowship with CHOP, Lake Tahoe+San Fran+Fresno+Yosemite, Liam was born



JULY: 
Glacier with Nana & Popsie, so much stress deciding about fellowship, Mummy & Papa visited, signed a 2-year contact with CHOP 



AUGUST: 



SEPTEMBER: 
We backed out of our contract with CHOP and experienced one of the most stressful life decisions of our marriage, Levi was born, Jax & Ty kill it in soccer,  I broke a 4 hour marathon. 




OCTOBER: 
 Jaxson was baptized and it was one of the most amazing weekend, Landon matched at Cincinnati Children's Hospital, Lando, Jax & Ty PR'd in their respective races



NOVEMBER: 
 Spain!!!!!! Went to lots of BYU sporting events, Landon flew to AZ to spend time with his siblings & parents, finished 3 unsuccessful rounds of infertility



DECEMBER: 
I finished the New Testament and 3 months of #ComeFollowMeChats with my boys, we had the most amazing Christmas with both sides of the family.



Woolf 2019 Video Review: 
https://studio.youtube.com/video/4BLEG1_oD3M/edit

Previous years :)
Our 2018 in review
Our 2017 in review
Our 2016 in review
Our 2015 in review
Our 2014 in review
Our 2013 in review
Our 2012 in review
Our 2011 in review
Our 2010 in review
Our 2009 in review

Two Moments from this week:

IN A MATTER OF SECONDS: 

This year ended with a moment that could have gone 100 different ways. It was a moment that reminded me just how present God is in my life, in my families life, in all of our lives. I took this picture:


And 3 seconds later Jax blocked my shot, bumped Ty who bumped Luke who fell:


I continue to replay this scene over and over and over in my head. I can see Luke stuck surrounded by glass. How did he not get one scratch? How was there no blood? How did the flimsy screen hold him? What if it hadn't? He would have smashed into concrete. It was an incredible moment of truth. God is in our lives. He does do "great things" and I experienced one this week. And even though he doesn't stop all bad things from happening, I'm going to focus on THE GREAT THINGS the does do for me his year.


DATE NIGHT
Also, I'll post most pictures next week, but last night we served dinner to the homeless with Jamie & Jon Curtis, it was amazing and I just love them forever.