1.13.2019

Hello 2019

Soooo we are pretending like last week didn't happen and that this week was our official new year! I love the new year so much. I love re-evaluating my life and my goals and my direction. Like I've mentioned in previous years, I only ever set ONE goal a year. And its the best way to do it. And this is how i've convinced my family to do it also :). 

2019 Goals: 

Landon
Become an early riser 

Becca: 
Be on time to commitments 
This is something I desperately need to be better at. I've always been a really insanely efficient person. I'm also known for being able to get a billion things done in a short amount of time. But i'm not just one person anymore and somehow, its taken me almost 10 years to realize that. I think that this goal it will help with so many things. My family gets most frustrated with each other during transitions. So if I plan better we should have more room to budge when emotions run high. I also feel like this will help me stop multi tasking so much, which hopefully will help the frantic feeling I always feel. It would be great if this goal helped with a big eternal goal of mine which it to be a calm, peaceful, and mindful person. But baby steps people.

 Sooooo, i've mostly failed so far. We were late to church last week and Jaxson's basketball practice and game this week. BUT today, we were KILLING it and were all ready to go to church at 1:10 (our church starts at 11:30). When I grabbed Luke from his crib he had a MASSIVE blow out. Which took me about 12 minutes to clean up. But we were able to still be 3 minutes early to church and we were all calm. You guys, i'm excited about this one. 

Jax:

Read 25 chapter books 

He finished his first one this morning. 



Ty: 

Read over 1,000 picture books 

(This is 3 books a day. So I really should be able to hit this one.) 



Luke: 

Learn to walk



Family Goal: 

Read the Book of Mormon 10 minutes every night 

Be ready for church and start our Come Follow Me 15 minute devo at 11:00am every Sunday

Couple Goal 
Run 2019 miles collectively
We will do this with the help of training for the Ogden Marathon (Landon), The Pioneer day Marathon (Becca), The St. George Marathon (Landon) and the Thanksgiving Half (Becca & Landon)

REVIEW:
The goals we made for 2018
  1. Couples Prayer nightly! We did really great at this one and feel like we've gotten into a good pattern. I take odd days and Landon takes even. And yes that means I pray more, but i'm more spiritual than him so it makes sense ;) (ahemm.... or I need it more than him.) 
  2. Ty's goal was to scream less. And i'll tell you what, by the end of the year he really was screaming less. In fact, I don't really think he screams consistently anymore. YAY!!!! 
  3. Me, Lando, and Jax had the goal to read the Book of Mormon every day. We didn't do great at this goal, but Jax and I did finish the Book of Mormon individually, yet at the same time on December 31st so that was great!
  4. I also had the short goal to run 2 miles when I was 39 weeks pregnant and run a half marathon 4 months after baby came. I completed both of those goals. Landon PR'd in both the marathon that he ran and the trail half marathon. 
  5. We had a family goal to pray for someone in our area that needed help each week and then serve them. We only did this til mid February and it faded out. Bummer! Maybe another year we will re-visit this idea! 



This little tiny pack in play and the incredible pack in play cover has changed my life. When I took this picture Luke was currently sleeping in this tiny contraption tucked away quietly in my closet while I finished my 2 mile run on the treadmill in the same room and the boys came in and out multiple times AND as you can tell its fairly light in the room. Its essentially given us our entire house back. WOOt WOOT! 

Let the running begin!!!!!! 

I'm still obsessed with this stuff!!!!! 

Its weird I only took pictures of Luke this week! I've been putting my phone to bed outside of my bedroom to help with me being on time to things. I often find myself wasting the very beginning of the day looking and communicating with the world before i'm even out of bed. So I figured if I wanted to start having breakfast by 8:00 every morning I needed to NOT have this distraction. But its changed everything the last 4 days i've tried it. Today at 3:00pm I still had 100% battery on my phone. Im noticing wants I get through that jerk reaction to wake up, roll over and "scroll" (even though I don't have anything to scroll I still find a way to waste time) that I start getting the day moving and then forget all about that little device. SOOOO this is all to explain why I think I haven't taken many pictures of the boys. 

We FINALLY figured out Jaxson's schooling. Boy its taken awhile. But We are going to do part homeschol/part public school and its basically going to give me everything I want. Its actually a law in Utah that you can do Dual school. And yes I had to show both Jaxson's teacher and his principal that it was a real thing. Also, in the end, I think we just needed to get back to Bennion. It is what makes all of us the most happy. The special education people were just adamant that Jax would be bored and should be in the "gifted" program. But in the end, I think there are things Jax is advanced in and there are things he isn't. Just like everyone else! I'm so happy we will still have him for most of the week. I'm so happy Landon and I will have time to supplement some things that are important to us. I'm so glad he will still have lots of free time. I'm so happy that I will have individual time with each boy every week and that I will have quiet time to myself each week. Its just going to be great!!!!! And as you've seen before, NOTHING is ever set with me. In fact this schedule has already changed.

We took the boys to Sushi on Saturday. They we BEGGING us!!!! And the just devoured it all. 

Landon go lots of money for Christmas and this is what he purchased with it. 2019 miles baby! I think that means he needs to average 25 miles a week and I need to average 15 miles a week. We got this! 


DO YOU BELIEVE IN MIRACLES????? YESSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!
On Tuesday's we were doing growth mindset day. We loved that day. So we shifted it to Sunday. Jax worked with Mummy in his journal and then we watched this Growth Mindset Movie!!! Sports are so cool.

Also we had Ty's Sunbeam Teachers over for dinner tonight. He has really taken to them which has been so wonderful and a little surprising to us. They are so wonderful though!!! We love Brother and Sister Jones aka Batman and Elastigirl. He's praying on his own, and reading the scriptures with us and saying sorry when he does something he know he should, and not fighting me as much when I need to get him to school or put on his church clothes. This boy, he's going to change the world!!!!! 

1.06.2019

The Time We Almost Moved

You guys! 

This week: 
Monday
We signed a contract with a cute little house and a fenced yard and a basketball hoop in the driveway
I cried about it late that night, like bawled, I love our apartment 
Tuesday
We did laundry and watched football 
We stayed up til 2:00am making a pro/con list about moving on Tuesday night 
Wednesday
I started packing 
And crying (I love this area and the people I know here)
And packing 
Talked to our new ward
Thursday 
I kept packing 
Then I finished packing out entire house
Then went an got the keys to our new place 
It seemed smaller than I remembered it being (last tenants had soooo much more stuff than we did)  
We went and measured our furniture and.... it didn't fit. Meaning any way we put our 13.5 foot couch, the front door would not open. 
Thursday night we decided not to move
Friday 
I unpacked
Saturday 
I unpacked an rearranged to try to make our small space feel a little bigger
Sunday 
Reflected on all the reasons this week happened: 
Our house is dang clean now 
I feel closer to our ward and the people here than ever before 
Money 
My relationship with God deepened 
It helped me see that there are some hard things about this space, I can be grateful for now and I can be excited about what the future holds

I think most of all I learned that God wants us to be happy. He doesn't compel in all things. I would even say he doesn't compel us in most things. Which is honestly hard for me. I tend to think that there is one path to him and that he both knows it and created it. But this experience taught me that there are many paths to Him and God doesn't create or pick our path (even if he knows what we will pick). We get to pick it. I get to pick and create my own path. 

This scripture:


27 Verily I say, men should be aanxiously engaged in a good cause, and do many things of their own free will, and bring to pass much righteousness;
28 For the power is in them, wherein they are aagents unto themselves. And inasmuch as men do good they shall in nowise lose their breward.
People who significantly helped me this week: 
Landon. Mom. Jaxson. Ty. Johnny & Marie. Nate & Sarah. Anna. Lanie. Fetzer kids. Angelina. Doretta. Jael. Lacey & Hallie. Candace, North & Oscar. Rachel. Dawn. The Curtis Family. Erin. Amy Johnson (other ward). Mrs Candleless. 
We went to IHOP Friday morning. I felt like the boys deserved something after the craziness. Jax was particularly bummed about not having a yard. I let them get some hot chocolate. Once Ty got his he said: 

"Mommy! God yyyoooo happy with me" 
"Why Bud?" 
"Because I picked hot chocolate and it makes me happy so he is happy. God is happy" 

God really does want our happiness!!!! 

So yeah, that happened. If you want more details of why we decided to move in the first place, and why the decision was so painstackingly hard for me, call me. Im still trying to understand how this all happened. And again, my house is so freaking organized. And I got two dinners out of it from wonderful women, sooooo worth it???? You decide :) 

Landon: 
Was a saint this week as he dealt with all of my emotions: 
Me: "Babe! I'm so sorry you have to put up with me!" 
Landon "Its okay, someone has too." hahah 

Becca: 
Refer to the top of this post 
Also, one of my friends said this week "If it is hard to leave you didn't do it right!" We've moved so much and will continue to do more. I hope to use this as my model 

Jaxson: 
He noticed Luke sitting up after he was laying on the ground "WAAAIT! Are you Serious! Mom mom! did you see that mom!!!? He sat up he sat up he sat up by himself. LUKE! Luke THAT IS UNBELIEVABLE!" He was a proud proud brother. 

Ty: 
Jax was crying because his LEGO Masterpiece broke. Like, sobbing (I wonder who he gets that from). Ty stopped what he was doing and started running in circle arounds Jax saying, "BYU is the BEST! Jaxson is the BEST! Spiderman is the BEST" Over and over and over. The love Ty has for Jaxson to say "Spiderman is the BEST" thats something for a little 3 year old. 

He also prayed for me on Thursday morning "Thank thee for Yaxson and Yukers. Thank thee for daddees work. And thank thee for my mommees heart." 

Okay Ty. Okay. 

Luke: 
Honestly he was so hard this week. SO so so so SO hard. I think he has some allergies to food. OR he is teething. OR his mom neglected him for most of the week while she packed up and unpacked. Not sure. Love him so much though. 



HE FINISHED THE BOOK OF MORMON! When I asked him how felt, he said, "Happy and exctied to have accomplished a goal that was so hard" 

All day long he jumps on our beds. Dont judge what you dont understand! 



New Years Eve! Love my parentals. And Utah LOST. Suckers! 








Man! He deals with some real real tragedies. Daily! 






I'm always always learning so much. 













OH and Ty had a really good time as a Sunbeam. He was the only one today. There are two of them though. I was so proud of him for being so brave! 

12.30.2018

Our 2018 in Review



January 
We enjoyed the city life. Walks, trains, library and more. 

February: 
Landon was on OB and loved it, he turned 31. Jax finished his first season of basketball, Landon coached. Ty and I walked and walked and walked around SLC. 




March: 
Landon ran a half marathon in St. George. We vacationed in St. George. We tried to get in lots of one-on-one dates before baby brother came

April: 
Cooper Luke Gary Woolf is here! (He came in 7 minutes!! Thank you running!!!)


May: 
The boys and I road-tripped to AZ! Ty turns 3. 


June: 
Jax finished kindergarten. Luke was blessed. Landon ran a marathon. Family vacation in San Diego. 


July: 
 Ty was obsessed with dressing up. Jax started baseball. Both the boys took swim lessons. And Landon was awarded OB Anesthesiologist of the year. 


August: 
Jax and Ty started school. We went on our favorite family hike ever. Landon and I celebrated 9 years


September: 
I ran a half marathon. Landon & Luke & I road tripped to Jake's wedding in California. We vacationed in a little cabin in Heber with no cell service as a family.  Lincoln James was born!! 


October: 
We decided to homeschool. Jax and Ty enjoyed soccer. Jax turned 7. 

November: 
I drove to AZ with the boys for Leah & Lincolns sealing. Landon was able to meet us there. BYU lost to Utah. I turned 30! 


December: 
Jax had his first piano recital. Ty said his very first prayer all by himself. Luke crawled. We prayed for every country in the world. Christmas!!

Previous years :)
Our 2017 in review
Our 2016 in review
Our 2015 in review
Our 2014 in review
Our 2013 in review
Our 2012 in review
Our 2011 in review
Our 2010 in review
Our 2009 in review

We had a really happy Christmas!!!! Tonight especially was a special moment. It was a pineapple smoothie dinner and buttered pasta that turned into all of us being monkeys, snakes, chickens, elephants and dying ostriches(you had to be there). The night ended with a sweet family prayer that Ty wanted to say all together and then Ty saying a prayer all by himself for the first time. "Heavenly Father. Thank thee for Yuke. Thank thee for Yaxson. Thank thee for daddy. Thank thee for mommy. Thank thee for mommy and daddy date. Thank thee that we could go to church. In the name of Jesus Christ Amen." Landon picked him up and we all ran around the house celebrating Ty. We love him so much!!!!!!!!!!!! And like Landon says to me all. of. the. time. "That kid is going to do some crazy big things one day. Just wait." I love my little family!!!! 




Ty knew he needed that tiny black piece on the legos neck. He tried to describe it to me 100 times and I couldn't find it. He looked for about 30 minutes until he finally found it. I was so proud of him. 

Jax spent all of Christmas Eve building the amazing Harry Potter Lego set! 



Couldn't have done Christmas Eve without Maddie! 


Landon made it home at 6:00pm just in time for Christmas Eve Dinner!!!! 



And then he fell asleep at 8:00 to Its A Wonderful Life!!! 






Another magical moment. We LOVED Mary Poppins. Landon didn't get called in like we thought he would. We played tag and on this and it just felt so happy for 10 minutes!!! Pure joy! 




December 26th I took Christmas down. Call me a scrooge but I needed it to be down. 

New Lego Station


We submitted our Fellowship application!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 




Love the Curtis family. So. So. MUCH!

The boys played happily for like 5 hours one day. It was the most magical moment of the week. I love brothers. 

27 years and counting!!!! J Dawgs instead of Sushi because the line was 2 hours long. 

Love the Haslams! I also hurried down to Provo to say goodbye to Lizzy. 



Jordan River Temple! Landon went to this one!