Becs:
For Valentines Day I gave my boys 4 dates:
Date #1: To Landon; take out Thai food & a netflix movie
Date #2: To Jax & Landon; Date at the Mt. Spokane Ski Resort
Date #3: To Ty: Library and Tres Leches with mommy
Date #4: To Jax; Super Heroes Symphony with mommy
Sometimes I get jealous that Landon can walk in from work and the boys are instantly as happy as can be and it just seems blissfully easy to be dad and i'm like WHAT THE????.... this is so not fair. (Dont get me wrong, I LOVE that they LOVE their daddy). But sometimes mothering can feel like me spending every second of the day trying to be patient and calm while teaching emotions and how to recognize the spirit and know gospel things and manners and respect and kindness and sports and and creativity and gratitude and games... all while feeding them healthy food and keeping things organized that limiting screen time and controlling what comes into our space while cleaning and cooking and paying bills while trying to exercise and fill my own bucket with the spirit while serving people around me and magnifying my calling and trying to be a good friend, sister, daughter. And at the end of the day its like, "Did we even have any fun today?" So these dates were amazing for me. It was so nice to just have a few hours with each one of my boys and remember, "Oh yeah! Being a mommy is wonderful and all those other things i'm trying to manage day in and day out are worth it for the moments where Jaxy is sitting on my lap and i'm whispering a Batman/Joker story while the symphony is playing. And he is grinning from ear to ear."
So I think we will make Valentines Dates a tradition in our family :).
Lando:
Is doing Cardiology this month. He was on call this weekend. He loved taking Jax skiing for his date.
Jaxy:
Loved skiing and the symphony. He told me after our date, "Mom this was just too much fun!" He also loved going to two of his friends birthday party
Ty Ty:
Is the cutest dancer ever. He is obsessed with his big brother and is sincerely sad when Jaxy isnt around. He loves all things sweet. And he is just so so sweet himself.